gForce, I am happy for you. Your wife may have some unrealistic expectations but you are "aware". You will guide her. I read in a book there is a period 4-6 weeks after reconciliation that couples hit a low point. If that is true, be prepared and positive. I will come back to you with the "6 qualities all happy couple have". From the same book. Maybe it will help (although you do sound great). Love K