Further damage things? What, like she'll go file for divorce? She's already done that. I think if it's sincere, from the heart, and completely honest it couldn't damage things. You're not sending it in a pursuing manner or putting pressure on her in any way. One suggestion, I'd leave out the I love you at the end. She knows it from the content of the letter and still may not be able to hear it again. Maybe sign it Contritely, H
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."