Hey LiM - That's what I thought too about 7 years ago. I thought my marriage was through... I filed for divorce even. My attitude was she didn't care about us any more, might as well move on. To my amazement though that (a divorce) is what woke my wife up. She really fought to save our marriage back then. I was the one so totally disconnected that I wanted pitch the whole thing. The only mistake we made was me not making some changes in myself and then us slipping back into our old habits. We do communcate and get along well other than being sex-starved again.
