"It must be so frustrating for you when your husband says all these things to you about his love for you but yet he is still gone to the far country... "

Actually, it has been wonderful. H is not so much in the "far country" any longer. He is more rational then he has been in awhile and things have been great. He might not be living at home but his heart is still here.

I really do not find it difficult. What was difficult is when we did not have an R like we do now. We had a great marriage and then when all of this happened, things seemed to be distant for a few years.

I would not trade this progress for anything.

He will be home--soon.

Last edited by steelersfan; 07/28/08 07:46 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19