That's great and inspiring, CW. Is it a religious-based divorce support group? I've tried to find a group (not to meet men, just for support), but the only ones I know about are Christian. I prefer one with no religious affiliation.
Anyway, keep it up! There is a man I have always been very attracted to who lives on the; his kids go to the same school as mi next block. He and his W just separated in January (I believe he pulled the ILYBINILWY on her, so I should probably not pursue him). He now lives in the basement apt of their house, which is kind of odd. Even if I had the courage to call him, it would feel weird to know he essentially still lives at home since I know his wife.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08