DQ - I just knew your favorite would be "Let's Go". You know when I met my wife I thought that was her attitude, Let's go and do stuff together.
I think I already reported my date disaster from over a month ago. I called her one Friday morning and asked her out for a date, just the two of us, to check out a restaurant we hadn't been to before. Instead of being excited to go somewhere with me, she was pissed I didn't want to include our daughter. We went anyway but it really screwed the whole evening up and I haven't tried "a date" again with her.
Don't worry I won't settle for less. I made a promise to myself that after a year of really working my ass off on our marriage, if there is no sign of a sex life inside of our marriage then I'm through with it. My motto is "Fix It or Forget It", It's not my goal but I am prepared if it comes to that.
I'm hoping things will settle down enough to sit down and talk things through again. We really need it I guess. David Byrne says, "Say something once, why say it again?" That's my attitude, I feel like I've said this before, no need to talk about it, just "do it", work on it now. I think she needs a reminder again though.
