He said this once. When he first left I pursuaded him to go for some IC and he found that out. It would be permanent, he would have a bag for the rest of his life.
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Do you think he could be depressed?
I have often wondered this but he doesn't seem depressed at all. When he first left it was very much about the illness, now it just doesn't seem to figure in anything outwardly to me anyway. Who knows what is going on inside?!
I feel the same as what you mentioned. That the longer the denial goes on the more of a permanent fixture it will be and the harder it will be for him to address but I realise that it is something that he has to do in his own time, maybe he has already, and there is nothing I can do. It is also the reason why I don't think he has had a pa.
Actually it is quite nice to talk about it, I have kept it wrapped up tight for so long.
