The road goes ever on...

[jon2911]

What does your pastor recommend in terms of this separation? Just curious, sometimes looking for the spiritual aspect from different people.

I think most pastors are at a loss in sitches like this, especially when an affair is involved. I don't know how far it went between W and OM, but they would base divorce on that. But divorce is a lot more painful and damaging than an affair, so that stance confuses me.

What I've gotten from most pastors and Christians is a lot of "your W shouldn't be acting like this" statements. Thanks guys, that's helpful :rollseyes:

There's a lot of real life that church ignores, and I want to help change that.