Yes Ian I'm aware of the difference. I would love for her to come to me and ask those questions.
Gosh I'm starting to have some flashbacks in memory. There were many times my wife would hold my hand and ask me if I love her to the point of tears. I would always say yes. She would ask if I was cheating on her. I would always tell her no, because I was not. Would not, and never will. Not in sepearation, and not in divorce. She will always be my wife.
Yes, I have to start thinking the marriage is over to help me detach. I can't get anxious in her presence.