Urgh, getting angry at this, because I am made to think about it. I don't want to think about this, it's not WORTH it !
Actually, Cinders, one of the reasons I stop by your thread from time to time and one of the reasons I stay away for a while is because all I ever see you doing is thinking about this stuff.
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I'm sure you are right, but maybe you didn't love your wife with as much passion as I love my H. I don't know...no 2 loves are the same.
That is an extremely unfair statement to make to anyone who has ever been here and it was said to demean.
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For now I 'decide' to just live and enjoy my life and kids and friends and family.
That is all well and good. But what are your personal goals.
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For now he is with ow. No one knows what the future brings. I like it that way, it leaves numerous possibilities open.
Actually, this is something I never think about. I know life has all limitless possibilities. There are so many possibilities, that it doesn't make sense to think of any of them. Now what makes sense is to set goals for a direction in your life regardless of what those possibilities may be. But your statement about OW was made with one possibility in mind, i.e. you want to see her hurt. Does you no good whatsoever.
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Oh yes, I have set a boundary...I do not want her on my property. This is my safe haven. I do not go and visit her at home either or park in front of her house ....
