Hey Brian, overall pretty good. I am going to say this, I think it was okay to tell her you love her. You haven't said it in a very long time and you tested the water with it. Given the conversation and the fact that you basically told her you were still in it for saving your family, I feel it was more than appropriate....Now don't do it again for a bit.
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I am an open book I have nothing to hide
Barf... that's like throwing a right hook while your left hand is down at your waste. You knew she was gonna counter that...... Stop with all the bs about what you are and what you are doing. Remember, your actions define you not your words. You are standing very strong for your marriage, no defending is necessary dude.
Try and remember what you and I talked about the other day, compassion, understanding, focus on the positive direction. That's all you have to do.
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She said there is a song in the movie "broken bridges" that explains how she feels so I am going to listen to that might give me some more insight on her.
Might.... are you fricken kidding me... she just gave you a golden compass dude..... read the lyrics, figure out what she is saying to you.
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So I decided since I inititated the hug I took a bolder step and kissed her goodbye
So I felt like I was left hanging here???? Did she respond, kiss back, slap your face, what?????
Ian
Ian...
Makes sense I didn't stop to think before saying it and now that I read it in quote, it was putting me out in front of her and countering her statement of nothing to hide from earlier.
Okay it 'will' give me insight, am trying to find the song so as to read the lyrics...
Sorry guess it was abit of a cliff hanger LOL. She didn't pull away she kissed me back and then just looked at me not in a bad more a surprised look I think or a look of WTF maybe...
