The Cars were one of my first concerts! I loved them so so much. Unfortunately, I loved them so much that I listened to them over and over to the point that eventually, I didn't want to hear it any more. Luckily, when I stopped playing my records finally, I could enjoy them on the radio again. And these days, I just really love it and start dancing if I hear anything by The Cars! My favorite is "Let's Go".
Cinco, I don't have any advice for you today but I am just hanging by your thread, hoping for good news. I have faith in you and your wife to pull this thing around. There is a lot of work and time involved with that, so I don't expect miracles over night. However, I do hope that there is a new opportunity soon for you to have another very honest discussion. I hope you stick to your guns and do not accept a "dead", meaningless sex life with your wife. I am of the camp that we must demand "more" from each other, always, in order to pull the best out of each other. We cannot watch our loved ones only give 10% when we know they are capable of 100%. Your wife will one day thank you for expecting the best from her, because she will one day accept no less from you.
