2 steps forward, 3 back

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Ok. Don't argue with him, don't try to convince him...all of this will make it WORSE!

Pull back and take care of yourself. You CAN do it!!!

Go pitch black.

Center yourself. You are going to take several weeks to just take care of yourself. Really. And then we will work on coming out of the dark ... and with strength.


The more desperate you look to him, the worse your chances are...so be positive....do something to pamper yourself.
I command you to get a pedicure....it has worked for a few of us in changing our PMA. Even a massage and/or yoga. Do the things that nurture and relax you. YOU CAN!


Lots of marriages are saved at the 11th hour, do not despair.