Cinco,

I don't weigh in much, but I have read all your postings and followed along.

I would suggest that you look at Saturday night as a glass half-full moment. After all, you asked your wife for ml, and she did it, at 1 AM. I can tell you that if I ask my wife to ml late at night, it is a no guaranteed and from your sitch it seems that a couple months ago, she would have shot you down as well.

So, it wasn't the passionate ml of Lust...Caution, if you have seen that movie, but it was still ml. Your reality may never match your dreams on your wife's outlook on ml but does it have to in order to be good? The more I accept this, the better things get for me and once in a great while she surprises me.

CB

PS - Great song. I love The Cars.


Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"