I agree with Cinders and Bworl here.

My H and ow are BOTH to blame. She knew he was not available. She was an aquaintence (sp?) of ours. She was even told by friends and MIL that their so called "friendship" was going to ruin our M. She was asked by me to stay away from my H. Did she listen? No. Hey, I even found her in my home with my H. She probably made out on my couch (the couch smelled of her perfume, my bed wasn't touched) with my H while our wedding photos were hanging above.

She was not innocent. Yes it was my H that broke our vows but I have no desire to ever face this ow again. She has no respect for anyone's wedding vows and no respect for marriage. She is a selfish person.

They are both selfish right now.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009