Trixi trying to find moorage

[Dom R]

hey trix.. sorry aobut the so-so aniversary...

may as well put in my 2c here

I said "That seemed a bit like you were playing chicken with me" and he said "not chicken, chess- and your next move is really important. Better make it a good one." I kept staring at him and burst out laughing and he started laughing too. I flipped him crap and said "you couldn't even keep a straight face for that one!" and he laughed and said that he tried. Even though it came off like a joke, I think he was dropping the hint that I am still in the position of trying to 'win him' back.

that was interesting. and wierd.
he wanted SOMETHING there. but I'm not sure you understood what it is. I'm not saying I do either, though

Then he says (since the song is about spending time together) "It's not about the quantity of time we spend together, we spend quality time together." I said "Of course, I totally agree; [...]

BUnchacrap :p
"Quality time" over quantity time is a myth invented by people who feel guilty about not doing something enough... so instead of doing the right thing... they redefine what is right, to make themselves feel good about what they're doing.

your H is doing the same thing... and you made it seem like you're going along with his self-delusion.
Booo!