It has been 7 weeks since he last contacted me, and even then it was only about the house closing...
When parted the last time, I asked him what his plan was as far as the divorce, and he said that he would settle into his new place, and then move things forward. I feel like I am waiting in pins and needles for the divorce papers. Since there is no contact, how do I possibly do any DB'ing?
It has been 11 months since he told me, and only the last 7 weeks has he officially been on his own. Part of me wants to see how long he would go until he contacted me again, another part of me wants to email him about the loose ends we have to tie up concerning house stuff...and see what kind of reception I get from him.
My heart is aching. I also am trying to be objective about how bad things were leading up to his decision. He was very self absorbed for a long time, and just did what he wanted, without including me. I also know that when someone is depressed (diagnosed or not...) they act in ways they never thought they would.
So, I'm officially 'gone dark'. How long should I do this before I make contact???
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...
