I think her enjoying the time she spends with you, but still being determined to date makes her very confused. Although she may think she is done with the M, emotionally I don't think she is. She is just masking the past because she doesn't know how to move forward with you - whether because she is uncertain she can or for other reasons.
This BB is a great place to vent. We always try and listen.
She is being a considerate roommate and friend. Those are positives. Don't get any expectations from that, but focus on the positives!
Don't worry about the date. She is obviously trying to find someone for a rebound R (even if unconsciously) but I somehow doubt anyone can shine a candle to you!
Well i think she might be confused .. she came home and we watched a movie.. i said thanks and went to bed. I saw how she looked over a few times. She has no idea that I know..i plan on keeping it that way.
How could someone move into a new R anyways? this one is still staring her in the face.
You are right, i did some things in our M i shouldn't have, but i am not that person anymore and i work on it daily..
She is being considerate, the only time she gets mad is if something from the past comes up..
But making my lunches for the week.. and so on, roomates don't usually do that..
