The MP3 suggestion is very tempting, but I know exactly what that would do to any civil type of interaction with H.
As far as my FIL goes?? Well, I think he knows. He knew about the A that my H had 7 years ago. His comment to me back in Feb., was....He's up to that same sh*t isn't he Sue. I think he may have also overheard H's nasty comments comparing me to OW when we were there back in Jan. Not 100% sure, but I think he's pretty tuned in to it. And I'm sure it will come up the next time that we talk.
Oh, my FIL DOES NOT know that my H got a DUI. H has not told him that and refuses to do so. H asked me the other day if I'd told my SIL about it. I said no. He does not want my SIL to know or my FIL. The BIL does know.
Have a great day!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day