I guess him saying he has been living a lie his whole life really got to me. Combined with me hearing him in the past say that he doesn't think he ever romantically loved me. He sure was a good actor for 18 years.
Don't believe him. He's trying to justify his decision to leave-to you and to himself.
Has he been moving stuff out to the new condo? Does he stay there over night at all? If so, have the kids been asking about him?
Oh- and it there any chance that you and the kids can go on the family trip without him? It makes me mad that he made that decision on his own.
