Hi e! I haven't been around, so I couldn't respond. I don't usually get on the boards over the weekends. I know what you mean about feeling like you're not getting a lot of replies!
And thanks for posting on my thread! I really appreciate it.
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
I heard the same "tone" that I was so used to when I had to walk on eggshells around him and I decided I didn't want to listen to him be "short" so I didn't return the call.
That was 5 days ago. I called him yesterday because I wanted to...
It's great that you waited to call him! You don't have to put up with his "moods."
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
I told him to stop by for a coffee and he said it wouldn't be today.
Try not to invite him to do anything, even something small like a coffee. You don't want to scare him away with such a huge commitment!
Good job on planning the get-together. I also freak out about having people over, so I know that it must be a huge change for you to plan a get-together on your own. Have a great time!
Originally Posted By: enlightenbylife
I have a question?
Do I let him come to me?
Yep. Keep living your life. Enjoy the picnic and he'll get curious and hopefully wonder what he's missing out on..
