Thanks BFM - I will try again. The comment about "this is not you" --- is something I have been telling him for months----the way he is acting is not like him----not the person I've known for 29 years. I agree with all of your suggestions/comments, and I'll give it another go. This is why I posted the letter.....
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
