You stand up and take it. You are not to quit your job. You are not to leave the area.
Remember she left. She didn't drive you out of anything. They are still your family. Do not take your problems to her side of the family.
Yes in the past you were the OM, but you have made a life with this woman now.
The Church is there for you. When you have a problem you take it to the Church.
Stop talking that you are only making time here. How do you know what God has planned for you? Praying for something like that would be pretty much praying for an apple to turn into an orange.