My only goal with the letter is to let H know that I know about the OW----because he doesn't know that I know. I truly believe he needs to know at this point. I'm following advice from FW, someone who's been there. I have an appt. with C tomorrow and will review it with her, but he won't talk to me (asked for D via e-mail), I don't think I can get through a conversation and hit everything I want to hit on...............FW????
It also doesn't matter to me at this point what his reaction is. I'm sure he will become angry, enraged, and deny, deny, deny-----but I don't care. I'm tired of taking all of the blame, feeling like I have to bend over backwards to keep him happy when I'm trying to work on ME.
Last edited by ThisCan'tBTheEnd; 07/28/0801:48 PM.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
