So you guys think I should open the box in a sneaky way rather than just asking him? I don't think he'd think I was pleading and begging. We have to divide assests and that is one of our assets, right?
I'm still struggling with how to live in this house with him. It's my nature to take care of him, to be his wife. I've only been married to him for almost four years, but I took the role of wife very seriously.
Yesterday while grocery shopping I picked up some of his favorite things... not because I'm trying to win his heart. I think I feel kind of sorry for him right now. It was a pity purchase.
Last week when I had my hair appointment and had coffee with SBIM, I was away from the office for about four hours. That night he asked where I was, which he never does. I'm thinking he thought I was consulting an attorney... which I NEED to do this week. Waiting to see my C for referrals.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence