We both work at the same company. I pursued her after we were with a mutual friend at a bar. I just started emailing her and asked her out.

Does that have a bearing on what I should do? Right now, if I don't pursue for a couple of days, she will email me, but it will be very brief. As if to keep a lifeline going is really all it seems.

Not sure what to do....


Me: 30
W: 27
Married: 9/2007
ILUBNILWU: 1/2008
W moved out 5/24/2008
W suicide 8/25/2009