Really upside down #2

[Neilh23]

What's good is that you recognize that you are flip flopping. Make a decision and stick to it. Just realize and admit that you made a mistake when you did. I believe that's ok to do. I did it yesterday, and it worked well.

did you wait to call her? I would've. Don't get too excited. I want to call my W every nite after we talk when the kids go to bed.....but i haven't yet. only because i don't want to seem pursuing..yet at the same time i want to. it's weird.

HOw did you guys end up together? My W pursued me.....and i think i need to pursue her a bit. SO i would be wary of wanting her to pursue you.....remember your actions will force her to act differently towards you...so maybe pursue her a little...