The Wifey - trying hard not to cry.

[Neilh23]

i think she does. i make it a point to make some sort of joke or crack whenever i see her...whether i fake her running over my foot orsomething along those lines...

good plan about your room. it's actually something i read somewhere else.....i did it for my girls' room here. painted it, made it girlie...with princess posters, etc. MY W noticed....she got the same posters for them for their room at her place..LOL

yeah, it's just one day at a time. You already have a long term goal...that's to reconcile with your H, but you gotta take baby steps before you get bigger ones.

you are taking baby steps...good job.

and your H is noticng...esp. with the WTF looks. My W was over yesterday and saw the KLA stuff sitting behind my computer and had the WTF look on her face. that's a good thing...trust me. They like the changes but don't know what to do with them. That's why we need to be consistent.