You're right of course--I have made the assumption about the stressful period, but it is based on how I have seen him react previously. I think he is so worried that I am going to be a source of stress instead of strength that he may react on instinct. However, I might be off-base completely!
In terms of myself for GAL, this is so hard as I really don't have much of a support network here. My idea is to go away for a couple of months for work (I have this option open), so that I can have something of my own to focus on. This will make it much easier for me to start working on things for myself. In the meantime, I will probably try to go to the gym on a regular basis.
What is your situation like at the moment?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!