My H is the type of person who would love nothing more than for me and ow to become great friends and pals so that he can spend more time over here, WITH her.
Personally I think this is part of the 'standard script'. Of course it would make thier lives easier but at what expense.
Before the dialogue moves on I would just like to say how I have personally been on the receiving end of OW being at my kids sporting events w/o prior knowledge and how hurtful and painful that was. The first time it happened most of the other parents standing on the touch line did not even know that H and I were separated. H & OW stood on the opposite touch line to everyone else leaving me to face the questions of 'who is that woman with your H?' I've never been so humiliated in all my life. THAT is the reason why I have no desire to have ANY contact with OW ever again.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
