Look at it more as testing the waters. You dunked your foot and had to pull it straight back out again! It must have been really have for you and I think you coped really well - I would have cried!
It was good she agreed to come though, my h won't let me near his family if he is about. I wasn't even allowed to go in and use the toilet even though I was desperate! Not to analyse too deeply but can you list any positives from the meeting or anything she said? What were the positives you can take away from this and do more of next time?
