Hi Pisces Sorry you had a rough weekend, hope NY was ok though. I found Saturday really hard too, must have been something going on in the cosmos somewhere
Personally I would wait a few days into the week to see what happens, after all you made a few strides last week. He may be in his man cave! I don't know though, perhaps some of the men may be able to give you better insight.
thanks Neil i think that was another moment of weakness...i bet he will too .... he proabably needed time to think things through and process everything..afterall he has gone from the D word to admitting fault to ...i hope.... reconciliation. this will not happen overnight.
thanks Julia- yes- it was a freaky weekend...im happy i got to meet some relatives and really get a chance to see where they live, etc. but i was a little off...so were a lot of people here...
thank goodness its monday...thats sounds funny but it was a long weekend...:)
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
think about it...when you decorate your apt/house with your H......most of the time, it's all stuff YOU wanted. guys need a place where they can put up their trophies, posters, and watch sports. It's just how we roll.
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
It is really up to you. Your H hasn't seemed to shy away from youre contact as long as it is not over the top. He went on vacation as well while you were gone right? You could always make a quick friendly call to see how his vacation was and share how yours was. Very low key, just a friends talk.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
I don't think you should contact him today but maybe tomorrow. I think if you contact him the first night after returning you're not giving him the chance to contact you first.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
i think that was another moment of weakness...i bet he will too .... he proabably needed time to think things through and process everything..afterall he has gone from the D word to admitting fault to ...i hope.... reconciliation. this will not happen overnight.