Crazy Summer

[Cinderellaman]

Imp, I understand what you are saying, I truly do.

BUT...like Bill said, we will all get there in our due time. It' not time yet for me. And I am not talking about running in to her by accident...I don't know how I would react to that. But the sporting activity would not be by accident as H plans to tell me if she's coming...therefore it takes the element of surprise out, right ?!

There is much to think about here. And I will.
I know that it was my H who took the vows. But there is also something called RESPECT, and that is where ow showed NO respect to the fact that she went off with someone's husband. So, if she's guilty of anything it's of not having had any respect for 'a marriage'.

The little evil voice in me, can only hope that one day she will hurt as much as I have, when another ow walks into their lives...yet I know that it will not take away the pain that I have had.

This is difficult. And for those of you who have read my thread for a long time...My H is the type of person who would love nothing more than for me and ow to become great friends and pals so that he can spend more time over here, WITH her.
I do not want such a life. It's something I have no interest in.

So...I think I will just see how life unveils itself to me, and not worry about all the 'what if's'

Thanks for all your insightful posts !