Hey Suit - where have you been my friend? Hope you are doing well.

IMP and Suit (my two favourite boy DBers) have got it pretty well covered - I think there is one more, and it may be particuarly for women - it teaches us that we don't have to be in a relationship to be happy, healthy and independent financially - nor does a relationship per se make you a more worthwhile parent, woman or friend. DBing has certainly given me the skills to be far more selective about who I date and why I date them. That's got to be a good thing.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.