"Our resemblance to their offending caretakers is what is happening according to Imago theory."

My X looked up at me as we were lying in bed and called me "daddy" about one week post-bomb. She explained it away by saying she was overly tired.

Her biological father had a sexual relationship with her for years while she was in elementary school.

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.