losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

So today was a fun day. Severe weather in the am, followed be church with the kids, sbux, shopping, naptime and a cookout at a friends. The kids an I got home around 7 and the W was home mowing the lawn. Well, that saves me a chore tomorrow. So I get the kids ready for bed and put them down. The W cleans up and says that she's heading out for the night. Another note in my journal.

So, my sitch began June 17th and she has been ignoring her kids for her new lifestyle/friends. I can probably count on one hand the number of times she's spent quality time with them. Add to this the get out as fast as I can and WTF is going on with her? Argh!

My L says my timeline is golf as it relates to the hearing for temporary custody if we get there. The state looks at the 30 days preceding the filing which is right aroung June 17th. She is either completely out of her mind or thee is something up her sleeve, or she is truly hoping for the settlement. I can't think of anything she can have up her sleeve but do believe she's out of her mind and my L thinks the same. Typically she sees behaviour like this with men and OW. Not W with OP when there are small children.
I want to help her but I know I can't. We both are responsible for what got us here and I am fixing me. She needs to fix herself and deal with the consequences.
Chris