losing sunshine but gaining happiness either way

[LosingSunshine]

Mike,

I agree as I have a problem with how fast this is happening too. My guess is that she is pushing for two reasons. The first is she has always been a person that needs things immediately once she sets her mind on it. Not very patient at all. The next is OW, regardless if it's EA or PA.

I am not sure what else could be up. I am trying not to be naïve but am at a loss for any other reasons.

Now, i'll be calling my L tomorrow to find out if her removing furniture and the kids without my consent is a violation of the temp restraining order the state issues upon filing. Basically the 2nd clause is about disturbing the peace. If not, since she won't respect the boundary that the kids stay in their home until otherwise directed by the court, I might have to have one issued which won't be good...read I am scared and nervous about doing that even though it's right thing to do for my kids.
I am really getting tired of all of this and am getting real close to no longer giving a damn. She is delaying having to deal with the reality of what is gappeneing, obviously not listening to what her L would have advised, and all of this s!?t is going to hit the fan. I am beginning to understand that my caring about this has more to do with my kids and how it may impact them, not about her. I can't fix her. I can't tell her to fix herself. All I can do is pray.

I also decided today not to give her the past from ken's thread snot ACOA. Her problem to realize and fix at tis point. Not mine. I'll be here if she needs me but that is about it