Getting Off the Rollercoaster!

[addie]

Thank you Nlt and Stella.

I decided to(calmly)confront H once again with his dishonesty. I was very vague about what I know and he kept denying it. I insisted that he has continued to be disloyal. I told him that I love him, that I want our M to work and I want to keep our family together but that I will not accept his dishonesty. I told him that words are no longer enough, that I will need to see actions corresponding with his words.
I now realize that we can't work on our M living so far apart. He continues to lie to me and for my own sanity I have to detach completely.