Mike, I hear what you are saying and please keep it coming. I have a lot at stake with some heavy decisions I need to make in the coming days. I know what I want for the kids and I am confused as to whether it is my love of W or fear for my kids future that is making me waffle and be a little indecisive. I am going to pray about it and yet to figure it out here in the next day or so.
Chris, my problem is this. Your W is in a really big hurry. She is trying to control the sitch and speed at which this takes place. This does not happen quickly in most states if kids are involved. In Tennessee it's pretty much 6 months if kids are involved. I do not like her pushing. Something is up in order for her to push this through this fast.
You need boundaries. She needs to abide by those boundaries if she is to live there.
I think you have her between a rock and a hard place.
