I have often thought of your sitch and have wondered how you would "know" that you were in the clear. My H and I seem to have tons of R talks (too many really), so I am pretty sure we would discuss where we were at...that, and I would move back into the house. ha!
Anyway, I think back to how you were not so long ago picking out colors for that spare room; and wondering when (or if) you were going to move yourself in there. So, during this sort of limbo time I wondered HOW you would know if you don't actually talk about things. You've come so far!
I couldn't be any happier for you- you so deserve this! And what a wonderful way to "find out" (for lack of a better word) that your husband is 'in'. Just thinking about it again makes me misty.
Yay YOU!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
