Yup, i will just reiterate puppy's position here.

Each time she throws garbage at you, turn it into gold and drop it at her feet with a smile.

This is a skill you will develop. You will find its really hard to keep angry with someone who loves you. You may have experienced this in some way before. Love in the face of her anger will completely disarm her.

Turn garbage into gold, it will leave her defenceless. You are doing a great job. Keep it up. \:\)

A+ from me too. \:\)