That's what DB'ing is all about. Find happiness with or without your spouse. GAL, do a 180, take care of you first. Save yourself first. If your spouse gets a clue & wants to follow, fantastic. If not, you STILL save yourself.
Hey Neil Just stopped over to say hi and catch up, before I go over and post on my thread and saw this from Cookie. Going to use it on my thread, because that right there is the bottom line, and my biggest stumbling block through this whole mess.
Also wanted to tell you that as I read your thread, my opinion is you are doing great man.
We all have good and bad days (I am having a bad one today, and stayed off the site just to try to get my mind off things), so hang in there.
Also, on the sex thing. You have read my story right? It's fun and exciting, but I would give it all up in a second to be her friend. A friend she could confide in, have fun with and missed when he wasn't around. Someone she looked forward to seeing and wanted to be with because he made her feel good.
