Did you say, "of course, and I expect the same from you." Because if not, especially if you didn't really say much of anything...your lack of reaction may have given her the impression that you wouldn't care. Not saying she would bring someone over, just making sure you don't get locked into one interpretation of the conversation.
If you are getting detached, then it will not make you flip out. And if you sympathize with her confusion, then you will not let it be the end of your DBing either.
If she seems receptive and things are friendly, while pursuing, it might be okay. The key with DBing is to do what works. So, if you asking her to do something occasionally has worked, keep doing it. If you get the feeling that things have been stuck, maybe change it up.
Keep in mind that she may need to lose you to a S to realize what she has lost. So, balance your desire to create good bonds with realizing that you may need to make her miss you by not asking her to do things and making yourself less available.
Every stitch is a little different though, and you know your W best. So you are the best judge as long as you keep the big picture in mind and don't get lost in the trees.
I never really said anything other than i would never bring anyone over.. i know she won't.. maybe I assume too much, but i know her very well.
So i went for a drive i wasn't flipping, so i must be detaching.. is that a good thing? I just went and vaccuumed my car/washed it..
Do you think her going on a "date" makes her confused?
Yes asking her to walk the dogs seems to work, but today she didn't really talk to me.. so i would say that is "stuck" wou;ldn't you? I am not sure how to change it up at this moment.
You know she just texted me to see if i would be here to feed the dogs , and that she was getting groceries for our lunches this week.. I don't get that...
Yet she will be telling the world she went on a date blah blah blah..
