Ohhhh, you wild child, you!! LOL, seriously, I am so glad you two had a good time. Sounds like the hangover may have been worth it......you must have really been having a good time! Anyway, hope you do get all the printed information from the session soon. It sounds like things are going so much better.
I agree with Jeff about making our own memories. Once, I even gave a wedding present to a couple that had a child each and were going to be a blended family....a book about how to make special days and memories. I almost kept it for myself. But, since my kids were grown, I didn't. I do think we have to do that. When I was younger, I was always doing "wild" things to keep the love interest flowing in my M. It was usually as much fun planning it as it was actually carrying the plans out....b/c most of the time, it would be a secret waiting for my H. And, you just saw me as a boring littel grandmother...huh. (lol) Well, I wasn't always a grandmother! Anyway, sex, happiness and fun memeories do not have to stop regardless of the age. As long as you can be healthy and strong, I say go for it and make every day count.
Take care, and keep making good memories. Watch those drinks.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!