Advice from my DB coach #3

[Neilh23]

Ok, Thanks Neil,

Will TRRRRRRRYYYYYYY!

hey suzanne-------

read my quote. then decide what you are going to do.

i believe in you. you can do this.

just decide to.

it's really that simple.

look, about 5 months ago i decided to do everything in my power to save my M. everything. Now, i went off on some false trails....endured a physical separation.....and a legal separation...and quite possibly an EA or a PA.....and everyone, every single person i know, really honestly believes i should cut my losses and move on. I have people trying to set me up on dates all the time. I don't go.

you know why?

Because I decided to save my M. I know i can. Look at how few people are really on this site... the population of the world is 6.5 billion. HOw many people come to this site daily? Maybe 100? Maybe 200? WE go against the norm. WE go against what society has said we should do....cut our losses and move on. There's no chance. But we believe we can.

i don't know who said it, but....

if you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything.

I believe I am going to save my M. You need to believe it to. Start working towards that goal. Yes, we all struggle (even me! ) but that doesn't mean we should be silly and don't do what's right.

STart doing what works for you. You know it. Decide to do it.

I believe in you