She made it pretty clear to me a few weeks back that if i were to date no one is allowed to come to the house, i would expect the same courtesy
Did you say, "of course, and I expect the same from you." Because if not, especially if you didn't really say much of anything...your lack of reaction may have given her the impression that you wouldn't care. Not saying she would bring someone over, just making sure you don't get locked into one interpretation of the conversation.
If you are getting detached, then it will not make you flip out. And if you sympathize with her confusion, then you will not let it be the end of your DBing either.
If she seems receptive and things are friendly, while pursuing, it might be okay. The key with DBing is to do what works. So, if you asking her to do something occasionally has worked, keep doing it. If you get the feeling that things have been stuck, maybe change it up.
Keep in mind that she may need to lose you to a S to realize what she has lost. So, balance your desire to create good bonds with realizing that you may need to make her miss you by not asking her to do things and making yourself less available.
Every stitch is a little different though, and you know your W best. So you are the best judge as long as you keep the big picture in mind and don't get lost in the trees.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
