Originally Posted By: buster80
I assumed she asked if I thought we had a chance so she could shoot me down. She just got done saying she didn't want to be married to me. Poor choice of words on her part to say she's worried about us getting back together. I made it clear I was not expecting reconciliation


It is important that you let her know its still possible and that there is love and hope in you. She needs to know this is there if you want her t oconsider it.

Like runningoutoftime said, keep the door open, make sure she' knows the door is there, but don't do ANYTHING to pressure her to walk through it. She must walk that herself. Otherwise she's just going to cheat again.