What you think is obvious and she thinks is obvious are probably VERY different things. Not talking is the biggest cause of miscommunication. Second only to poor communication attempts.
Think about things you could be doing that might be considered pursuing. Stop them.
As for the dating, perhaps just say, I was thinking that we are both going to start dating, and while I don't have any plans to try that until we've moved to our own places, I wanted to discuss some boundaries with you so that when it happens there aren't any surprises???
Or maybe, I was thinking we are both going to be dating, but I wanted to let you know that I would never bring anyone to the house out of respect for you???
Remember, "I" statements. I feel it would be disrespectful to you/God/M/whatever.
She made it pretty clear to me a few weeks back that if i were to date noone is allowed to come to the house, i would expect the same courtesy.. although dating isn't really something i am thinking about quite yet..
isn't it supposed to drive me nuts that she is out for coffee with some guy right now? It is not nearly as tough as i thought it would be.. odd..
Yes I asked her this morning if i could join her to walk the dogs, that would be considered pursuing correct?
