SHE WILL HAVE TO PULL AWAY FIRST BEFORE SHE HAS ANY CHANCE OF COMING BACK.
Pull back more. You have made GREAT memories these last few months and reminded her of what she will be missing. I think perhaps it is time to let her miss it.
Have that talk with her about the gym membership. Let her know you are paying for it, then ask if she wants to pay for it herself.
Maybe it's also time to have a real conversation about dating. Try some boundary setting about not having people over maybe?
I'm just trying to brainstorm. I hope that makes sense.
How do I pull back more? I guess I could just go "dark" ?
how the heck do i bring up "dating".. she will get a sense that i may have "snooped".. tell me how i bring that up?
It's pretty obvious NOONE comes over here.. period.
