This is a rationalization: quote]but you know the op was foolish enough to believe it[/quote]
Let's see my ex got together with OP 8 years ago. Your H has been with this woman for what 2-2 1/2 years. I can go back to the people who I met when I first came to DB and there are quite a few whose ex-spouses are still with the OP. There must have been truth to the notion that they were available. Were all of these people fools?
